Is it necessary to prove......

        It is all about feminism, and according to me feminism means choosing the life with  own ,making own decision , finding respect and positions from their work  not for proving in front of someone,but only for loving yourself , expressing  intellect quotient for doing something better , instead of bunch  of women who hate and  have rage in their minds all the time for males blaming themselves for their conditions. There are plenty of examples where men are comforting and encouraging women. So blaming all men for their problem is wrong. On the contrary I do feel that at some extant women are responsible for their problems. Crying for their problems and equality and blaming someone else shows their weak characteristics. In fact there are many things that a man can do and women can’t but at same time there are lots of thing that a women can and men can’t. This is a universal fact and everyone has to understand and give respect to the one who is efficient without mattering who has done it.

  Sometime I do feel why this race is going on among men and women for just proving each other that they are better or best. Don’t we realize it is a immensely childish behaviour? Each time women is trying to defeat men and on the other side male chauvinist are trying hard to make her fall down in every circumstances instead of appreciating her for work done .The root cause of  this  male and female racism is that some of the women even don’t know for what they are working,they have an image in their mind that they are working for just manifesting and at same time men is also a confused personality that he has a problem with the work that a women is doing  or with that he is not able to do that. Sometime I also feel that, is that much mandatory to prove in front of any one, specially the one who will never understand the things. I think the smartest move from the women side shall be just ignore all this proving thing and just focus on the things she want to do .If she is confident enough for anything she doesn’t need any justification for anything.

    

   .In my opinion a generous women don't need any approval from anyone that whether she is eligible for something or not. This is in fact a true Feminism.

Thanks 

Rahul Dravid. The Timeless Steel

                      Finally i got something to write, something to make all my friends bore ;), but i do really think that for the one , i am writing is very  modest,classy,  brave, gentleman ,perfectionist  ,dedicated,inspiring  living legend and the most importantly my favorite,reading this will be worthy for all of you. 

                  Although i am a  not technical person for the cricket game, so as i can't say about any of the technical strength or weakness of him .Initially when i had started to watch cricket and specially one days or test matches, i used to watch playing him , and as i was a kid and not know about him, i used to comment "ab sari balls waste karega ye to" . but as  time passes out i realizes that i was so wrong.because when people have the prerequisites in their mind they always misjudge and i also belong to the same house.  :(

  The day when i read an article about Rahul Dravid stating that he was the greatest player of cricket in world but most of the time of  his performances were overshadowed  because of Sachin  and Saurov.Sanjay Manjrekar was saying in his interview that if Dravid had played in 70's and 80's , the life should have been easier for him . Those were the times when leaving a ball got nods of approval and admiration from spectators as well as the bowlers like Malcolm marshall , Ian bishop &  michael holding etc. Don't know fortunately or unfortunately  according to me Dravid played most of his cricket in an era  when playing defensive is considered as handicapped as far as modern cricket is concerned.

But his pull shot and  wristy classy shot will always be remembered.Thanks to Mr. majrekar whose article makes me understand the other aspect of defensive cricket.

The thing that is most impressive about this gentleman  is that how much he loves his game,as although he was aware about the existence of politics in the game, but he still say that "this game has given to me so much in the life that i will never bitter".On receiving PADAM SHRI Award in 2004, this legend reply that don't say me the Hero, and you guys are using  Hero Word very carelessly because according to him the real hero  are soldiers ,scientist and doctors.
Heads off to this modest and a great   player & personality of the INDIAN CRICKET.